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This page is for positive memories/details of any of our former colleagues who are deceased. Contributions are welcome from members and non-members alike and may be emailed to the webmaster. Pictures are welcome and will be added to the "We Remember" photo album available to members._______________________________________ |
Addendum to Ed Wainer’s Tribute to Doug McLennan by Robin Graham:McLennan and Wainer for the weekend at Mwanza – ah yes, I remember it well. Not a recipe for an uneventful date, as those who knew either of them will be aware - and I was only 19 at the time; in fact I suspect I haven’t been the same since! I do have a couple of pictures of the three of us to remember the occasion; one taken by Neves, Chef d’Alfandega, Zobue, who is in the second photo and who I have no doubt will remember the weekend also!! Doug was one of those irrepressibly entertaining, street-smart and larger than life characters, who one particularly remembers because his conversation appeared to slowly degenerate into some unintelligible Scottish brogue as the day – and his thirst progressed! (By this time of course it may not have been necessary that we needed to understand what he was saying, but with visitors, one had to be polite!) Reading the tributes on the website, he obviously – and fortunately – never changed. They were great days, memorable because of the diverse characters, such as Doug, who made the wonderful working and social environments within the customs community which we were all fortunate to enjoy. It was heartening to read that he allowed his grandson, Kevin, to win at Champion of Champions; I am not sure he would have been as generous to the rest of us! Robin Graham PS. The Vespa scooter can be seen in the second photo and I am happy to report that it enjoyed an ongoing and distinguished but not trouble-free customs history when I sold it to Cyril McCormack who found two wheels particularly challenging to keep on the strips of his homeward journeys from the Cholo Sports Club to Malosa! Webmaster Note: The photos mentioned are in the 331(2) Photo Album (Available only to members). Added June 25, 2011 |
Email from Ed Wainer regarding Doug McLennanI was so very sorry to hear of Doug McLennan's passing, but yet grateful for the raft of happy memories he provoked.We first met in 1959 when we were both stationed in Limbe, One weekend we were invited by Robin Graham to visit him at the Mwansa border post. Our only transport at that time was Doug's 98cc put-put motorbike and we decided our best bet was to use that to get to the bus station in They didn't stop us - either they got bored with their playful terrorisation, or the passage of time turned the two renegade curfew breakers back into a couple of innocent civilians enjoying an early morning bike ride! The weekend was a great success only marred by my silver tongued Scottish friend sweet talking Robin into letting him have a go on his brand new Vespa scooter - after all, he was an experienced motor cyclist and there wouldn't be any danger. Robin, against his better judgment it has to be said, agreed, and Doug set of round the corner with enthusiasm. It was quite a while before we detected the squeak, squeak, squeak of tyre rubbing on mudguard, to be followed by the somewhat disheveled and shamefaced picture of Doug pushing the mangled machine back again. Experienced motorcyclist he may have been but the tiny tyres and unusual sitting position of the scooter on corrugated dirt road bends was his undoing. We didn't have to catch the bus back. We were given a lift in the latest, hump backed Standard Vanguards. All very plush and comfortable but, like the the scooter, a bit skittish on corrugated bends. We were both serving together again in Head Office some twenty years later when the news that we were to train others of a slightly different hue to do our jobs and take our promotions filtered through. I left in September, 1980, and regrettably never saw Doug again. Happy memories though. I'm sure he'll be missed by his family and friends. (Added May 8, 2011) |
This is a tribute to Doug McLennan from is Grandson, Kevin McLennan:Dear DougThe memories I have of you are truly great. I remember when I was young and we used to play a game called Champion of Champions. Even though I was about 10 and I tried my hardest to get you out of the fighting ring I always lost but still you always let me win. Memories like that are moments for life. You were always generous and very wise. I hope to be just like you one day. Time says we will heal but I know when I think I think of you I will always shed a tear. I know we shouldn’t be sad that’s not the way you would want us to be. You taught us to be really strong and always have pride. I do because of you and I am extremely proud of you. You taught me more than anyone. Thank you for being there for me, forever in my heart you will be. Your grandson Kevin McLennan (Added April 30, 2011) |
Here is the speech given by Ian Davidson at Doug McLennan's funeral:I am sad but very, very proud to be asked to say a few words on the passing of myI speak today on behalf of the many , many individuals all around the world - any subject. Doug made unfortgettable speeches at my family celebrations in years past and I ,Marie, our daughter, Natalie and our son ,Ashley thank him for those precious moments which will always be on record. I quote one example of his repartee .He was MC at our 25th wedding anniversary Jean, Andrew and Allan and your families, Jennifer and David and family, Tom and Maureen(who will be with Jean on Saturday) and Scott in the land of the heather. We honour a committed husband, a caring father and grandfather and a loving brother and uncle. His passing brings profound grief to all of us but his life has left us with many happy and often amusing memories which will forever remain in the thoughts of his friends and in the very souls of his family. Doug was one of those. In keeping with the many years Jean and Doug and family spent in Southern ‘HAMBA KAHLE,UMNGANE WAMI’-go well my friend. LORD -YOU HAVE TAKEN A GOOD (Added April 30, 2011) |
| Here are some details of Doug McClennan's funeral supplied by Ian Davidson, who also lives in Spain, and was a close friend to Doug: The cremation service for Doug began at 1700 hrs on Tuesday 26th April at a beautiful chapel in the small coastal town of Her sons, Andrew and Allan, flew in from (His brother Tom and wife Maureen had just embarked in a cruise when they heard of the tragedy). Amongst those saying farewell were members of the Baobab Club-individuals who had lived /worked in Southern Africa/East Africa-other friends and neighbours. Recorded solemn, organ music was played at the beginning to provide time for reflection. A photograph of Doug taken in 2002 was on view. The Rev Keith Brown addressed the gathering with dignity and compassion and requested that her many friends now keep in touch with Jean on a regular basis. The playing of 'Amazing Grace' and 'the Mull of Kintyre' with massed pipes and drums was hugely emotional for all concerned. The music underscored Doug's Each person filed past the coffin as the service came to an end and gave their own personal tribute. Jean very generously invited all back to the restaurant where the Baobas have their monthly get togethers .The family was able to engage with all concerned and slowly Brian Lucas -an ex DC and convener of the Baobabs -spoke during the meal in honour of Doug and told how his Departmental postings were almost always in parallel with those of Doug and yet they were only introduced to each other in It so happens that the cruise vessel is calling at the Passengers will be ashore for some six hours and I and Marie will make the 400 km with Jean and her sons to meet up with Tom and Maureen. Andrew and Alan return to Added April 30, 2011 |
Doug McLennan - passed away suddenly in San Miguel de Salinas, Spain on April 22, 2011The Following is an exerpt from an email message sent to Jean by Leo Fincham:"We are not alone in this; Doug had many friends and admirers, simply because he deserved it. All of us were greatly saddened at the news of his passing. I knew Doug for more than 50 years, during which time we were not only colleagues, but friends and, latterly, partners in a business venture which owed much of its success to his acumen, insight and keenness. One of his many outstanding attributes was his ability to express himself clearly, fluently, and with style, in writing and in speech. His intellectual prowess was another such attribute; he had few peers. Doug was an excellent mixer, and had a lively approach to all his activities. Who could forget the Friday afternoons in Head Office, when distillery samples were subjected to the most critical analysis! His sharp sense of humour was legendary. No wonder he was so highly regarded and respected. Remember the words from the Sermon on the Mount, as recorded in the Gospel according to St Matthew, Chapter 5, verse 4 : “Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.” |
Tony Forrest - passed away in Biloxi, Mississippi on March 4, 2011.Here is part of the email Claire Forrest (Tony's daughter) sent to Doug McLennan.
"Sadly, I am writing to let you
know that my dad died on Friday March 4th at Biloxi Regional
Hospital. Last
year he was diagnosed with
smoldering myeloma and although he seemed to be doing well for much of
the year, in January,
after my parents returned
from a family wedding in UK, it was discovered the cancer had become
multiple
myeloma.
He was suffering
from excruciating back pain caused by the cancer attacking his spine and
causing
2 fractured vertebrae.
After surgery on February 10th to try and alleviate the pain a slew of
complications
began, including pneumonia, blood
clots and internal bleeding. After 2 weeks in the Intensive Care Unit,
he passed
away on Friday.
The medical staff at Biloxi Regional were exceptional during this time and it was a comfort to all of us to know Tony
was being looked after by such compassionate and professional people.
We know Tony will be missed by many, many people. He really was such a funny and wonderful man, very loved."
Here is a copy of the obituary in the Biloxi local paper, the Sun Herald: MS
United States Tony Forrest, "The Englishman", 72, of Biloxi, MS, died
Friday, March 4, 2011, in Biloxi. Tony was born in Yorkshire, England
in 1938. He was a very funny man and was often overheard telling people
he was from Bogalusa when he was asked about his Yorkshire accent. This
sums up Tony's sense of humor and his striving to amuse himself while
never looking for an audience. If you ever had the joy of meeting Tony,
you would probably have experienced this great sense of humor. Tony was
a very generous and kind man, who would willingly give you the 50 cent
thrift shop shirt off his back. Tony and MP met in Zimbabwe, and after
living in many parts of the world they finally settled on a quiet
southern U. S. lifestyle of shrimp, gin and tonics, squirrel chasing
and hurricanes. The love, charm and giving nature of the Southerners
assured Tony and MP that the Gulf Coast was to be their home. Hurricane
Katrina brought wonderful volunteers into their life and many are now
part of the Forrest family. Tony loved and appreciated all. More
recently, the family experienced the most compassionate and
professional care from the outstanding medical staff at Biloxi Regional
Medical Center. We extend our grateful thanks to all, most especially
to Dr. Motakaveri. Tony is survived by his beloved Scottish wife of 43
years, Mary-Pat; his daughter, Kate Forrest Rodrigue, and
granddaughters, Thais and Ellie; his son, Kevin (Jessie) Forrest of
Portland, Oregon; his daughter, Claire Forrest of Boston,
Massachusetts; his sister, Pauline (Paul) Challenger and family of
Yorkshire, England; and in-laws, Therese and Eric Hudson, Brendan and
Jennifer Bocker and families in Scotland, and Joe and Meg Bocker and
family in New Zealand. Many people will miss Tony; his jokes and
wisecracks will live on for a very long time to come. A celebration of
his life will be held Saturday, March 12, 2011, at Nativity B.V.M.
Cathedral at 11 a.m. A reception will follow at Sacred Heart Center in
Biloxi. Bradford-O'Keefe Funeral Home, Howard Avenue, in Biloxi is in
charge of arrangements."There will be no more throwing plums in this
house!" ~ Anthony Geoffrey Forrest."
We never knew Tony & Mary Pat in Zim, but got to know them through emails etc. when they joined the exCUSTOMSnet. We met them in Biloxi around July 2007 when we were en-route from Texas to Florida. They gave us a delicious meal & we spent a hilarious evening with them. They were a wonderful couple and we certainly appreciated their hospitality, Tony's sense of humour and Mary Pat's artwork. Arthur & Mary Adams
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Here is Des Mooney's obituary from the Freight & Trade Weekly: (Thanks to Brian Kalshoven)
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| The Late Des Mooney. June 2009 |
| Des was a great friend from the days we started customs together in Bulawayo, right up until the time he died. |
| We spent some fantastic times together in Byo, at the Falls, Harare and later when I holidayed in S.A. |
| and whenever he visited us here in Aussie. His cheeky sense of humour and his friendship will be sadly missed. |
| Sleep well Des, I am so fortunate to have known you for so long. |
| Joe Robertson |
| Des was one of us, and his passing touches us all. John Donne put it clearly nearly 500 years ago, when he said that |
| “No man is an island, entire of itself…. Any man’s death diminishes me, because |
| I am involved in Mankind. And therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls: it tolls for thee." |
| Best regards to all, Leo |
| Please convey my deepest sympathy to Des's family |
| Chris Maidwell & family |
| We have good memories of Des and were really sad to hear that he has passed |
| on. He was really fun to work with - he gave us lots of good laughs! |
| Fondest Regards, Liz (Fizzy) and Peter Marshall |
| It is a very sad day indeed. The last time I saw Des was at Graham Bennets funeral. |
| I always remember meeting Des at the training school as new recruits. I was the only one from Umtali and the |
| rest were from Bulawayo and Salisbury. As was custom we all had to get up and tell everyone who we were |
| and describe our home towns. Des got up and introduced himself and went on to describe how wide the streets |
| were so you could turn a span of oxen! Then I stood up and introduced myself and as everyone knows we were considered |
| as beings"hicks". I said that in Umtali didn't have wide streets to accomodate an ox cart turning, but that was because |
| we drove motor cars! From there on in we were the best of friends. Sleep well my buddy, you will be sorely missed. |
| Peter Sands |
| I/we served with Des in the lowveld (he was i/c Buffalo Range, whilst I was i/c Hippo Valley distillery). An always cheerful |
| tjappie was Des, with an unstoppable sense of humour. His Immigration counterpart in Chiredzi then was one Jock Cruickshank(sp?) |
| ...... if anyone is in contact with Jock these days (if he is still alive) - I am sure that Jock would want to know of this sad news. |
| We certainly enjoyed more than one good hoolie in the lowveld at either Hippy Valley Club, Planters Inn, the Customs mess, |
| the Immigration mess, or even our Resident Excise Officer's house at 11 Old Mill Road (just up from the club). |
| We served with him in Harare too. A popular cheerful guy who will be sadly missed by many other than us, I am sure. |
| Tjeeeerrrs poppet, |
| Aussie & Joleen Austin, LONDON England |
| Ada and I are saddened at the news of Des' passing. - I last saw him at GCB's funeral in 2007. |
| As I fondly remember, he frequently attended the cricket matches we played at the Airways club and was always a jovial-full-of-fun |
| person with appropriate comments if one went out for a "duck". - We both enjoyed his light-hearted company. |
| God's comfort and grace to family at this time. |
| Love, Derek and Ada Brent |
| Des and I were raw recruits together in Bulawayo and his cheerfulness often helped me through those anxious days. Shortly |
| after that we were transferred to Vic Falls and I always found him to be such a good friend. |
| So terribly sad to hear of his passing. |
| With fond memories, Robyn Westermeyer (nee Forster) |
| I remember Des well and will never forget his smile and sense of humour. |
| Arthur Adams |
| I was sorry to hear about Des's passing away. I don't think that I ever actually worked with him at any time, but I still remember him |
| as one of the students, in the front row, when I presented my very first training session. It must have been one of the six-week |
| Induction courses. What I particularly remember is Des grinning there, looking up at me. He had a great sense of humour and was |
| quick to ask the awkward questions. It was a memorable occasion for me, but far from being negative his comments |
| were very amusing and constructive drawing laughs from the other students. I can still see his smiling face. |
| Andre Guernier |
| I too served with Des and although it was back in 1970 something, I remember a very happy go lucky guy who always |
| had a smile and a mischievous look on his face . |
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Dickie Dickinson ________________________________________________________ |
I was saddened to read of the
passing of Tubby Tolson. I first met Tubby while stationed in Ndola in the year
prior to the break-up of the Federation. Tubby was, as I remember, stationed
at one of our border stations on the Congo/Northern Rhodesia border. One
of his
duties was to conduct a regular
patrol along the length of the Luapula River, which formed the border
between the NR and the
Congo, to as far as Lake Mweru and
back. Tubby invited me to join him on one
such patrol. The
patrol meant that we had to
cross the Congo Pedicle from just
outside Mufulira, cross the Luapula by ferry, and re-enter NR on the
other side of the Pedicle. It was then a case of following
a very rough dirt road all the way up the Luapula river bank taking in The area was possibly one of the
most heavily populated parts of NR that I had been to. The road was literally
bordered by non-stop villages on either side all the way to Lake Mweru itself. Tubby
had jokingly called it Main Street Africa. As
we travelled along this rough
road we had to be very careful not
to hit some kid that would, without warning, dash from one side of the
road to the other
without looking and often emerging
suddenly from behind a clump of tall grass. Fortunately,
we managed to avoid
the disaster of collecting one of
these dozens of kids, even dogs and goats that were equally prolific and
just as good at
attempting a suicidal crossing. But the hundreds of chickens were another matter
altogether. On this trip we collected only three.
But Tubby told me that on some trips his “kill rate” could run to the twenties and more. The way he was describing it to me I rather imagined that he might have painted chickens stencilled on
the outside of the Customs Land Rover door representing each of his “kills”. I
can’t remember how things
went during the years in between,
but Tubby, Averil and the kids did visit LM, staying with Muk
Micklesfield and his family,
during the early 1970’s. I saw Tubby and Averil again in
My condolences go to his family. Andre 4 September 2008 |